*Shay Lynch.
THE FATHER of seven year old Clonlara student Shay (James) Lynch said “we will forever love you. You will always be forever our beautiful boy Shay-Shay”.
Addressing mourners at his son’s funeral mass at St Senan’s Church in Clonlara on Wednesday, James Lynch said “To Shay-Shay – our amazing little boy. From your first breath, we have loved you so much with all of our hearts”.
A first class pupil at Scoil Seanáin Naofa, Clonlara, Shay died following a tragic accident at a Killaloe hotel pool on Saturday while attending a party at the hotel.
At his funeral mass today, James said that he would complete the playhouse that Shay had started work on “just the way you wanted it”.
Addressing ‘Shay-Shay’, James said, “Thank you for all the lovely pictures and lovely notes that you have left on our pillows as surprises for us – we will cherish everyone of them”.
He said, “You were such a gentle, caring, sweet boy who wouldn’t harm a fly”. He said, “Thank you for loving me, your Mommy, and big sister and friend, Abi. Your favourite teddy Dougie is in safe hands now with Abi”.
James said, “You were such an amazing artist and so creative in every way. I have even in the past sent your god-father John some of your pictures – I was that proud of you”. James said, “I will miss you coming to work with me and how you loved putting on your little works-pants and pencil over your ear.”
“I promise that I will never leave the first piece of timber you cut for your playhouse a few weeks away from us with the lovely pictures you drew on them”.
He said, “Abi and I will finish ye’re playhouse the way you wanted it”.
“I know you always said that you would like to be a builder like me and you already had your apprenticeship started and you would have been a great one. I know that you have been so happy to have your Mommy as secretary in your school these past few months. We were so proud of the amazing reports from your teachers.”
James said, “We know that you are safe now and at peace with your Nana Christina….We will forever miss you – we will forever love you. You will always be forever our beautiful boy Shay-Shay”.
Earlier, James had helped carry his son’s white coffin to the top of the church and briefly kissed the photo of his son in his Clonlara colours as he comforted daughter Abi.
In the packed Church parents comforted their small children as Fr Pat Mulcahy said last weekend was joyful as 41 local children celebrated their Confirmation and three baptisms took place in the parish while locals looked forward to the ‘epic’ hurling match between Clare and Limerick.
Fr Muclahy recalled meeting Shay’s mother, Tania at the Confirmation service on Saturday “and we went about our respective businesses. Just another day”.
He said, “That evening a dark cloud had descended on our parish community as information disseminated through social media regarding the sad news which stopped all of us in our tracks”.
He said, “Our young, vibrant Shay had left us. The storm clouds of panic and disbelief had truly invaded our hearts and souls ‘surely this cannot be?’ A seven year old full of the fullness of life – out for a day of enjoyment – he never came home”.
Fr Mulcahy said that two weeks ago Shay planted two shrubs at the grave of his Nana Christina at Bridgetown cemetery.
Fr Mulcahy said that Shay was so happy he did that “and little did we or he know that he would be laid to rest where he planted that shrub beside his Nana where he will remain forever young”.
Fr Mulcahy said that James told him that when asked what she liked about her brother, Abi replied ‘I love everything about him”.
In a reference to the grief that has enveloped the community since the weekend, Fr Mulcahy paid tribute to the work of the local school and support systems “that came to the rescue”.
Later before mass ended, Fr Mulcahy told the packed Church “when we have an unexpected tragedy in our midst we can sometimes blame ourselves”.
He said, “We can carry guilt and feelings of remorse and we may say to our inner selves ‘why?’ There are so many ‘why’s?’ and so many ‘if onlys’ and we need to forgive ourselves too and seek healing of memories”.
He said, “If our hearts are troubled because of events out of our control, we should seek help, talk to a friend or a counsellor – there is help available so we pray for healing of memories and peace of mind”.
Earlier in momentos brought to the altar, his aunt Caroline said that Shay’s under 9 coach at Clonlara GAA, Joe Moriarty and his son, James brought up a Clonlara club jersey and his hurley and Shay “was so proud to be part of the best hurling club in Clare”.
Shay’s big sister, Abi “who he adored”, and his cousin Cory brought up his “beloved Dougie” teddy and some of his favourite toys.
Shay’s cousin, Craig brought up Shay’s work pants, pencil and tools “a symbol of all the great times that Shay had working with his amazing Dad”, according to Caroline. Two other cousins, Ruth and Alfie brought up “some of Shay’s amazing art work which brought him so much joy and his favourite treat from Nanny – Oreo cookies”.
Another cousin, Cathal brought up Shay’s school jumper, Scoil Seanáin Naofa as Caroline said that Scoil Seanáin Naofa “was a place of joy, friendship and laughter for Shay and the Lynch family”.
Shay Lynch was later laid to rest in St Thomas’s Church grounds, Bridgetown.
